Was updating the sgLEAD blog when I came across this blog post by Mathia Lee. She wrote how she was impressed by the efficiency and abilities of two persons with disabilities, and also with the people who hired them:
When I went to the Vatican a few months ago I was super impressed. The guy who sold us tickets at the counter had 2 fingers only, and he was just handling all the transactions amazingly fast, no different from othr counters, and the queue was miles long but it cleared really fast.
The cloak room was run by just one guy and he had Downs’ syndrome (or some sort of other social disability) and everything was in perfect order, and so efficiently managed.
Made me think:
It’s inevitable that some people, if not most, will see the disability before the person or their abilities.
Whether or not they are prejudiced, or whatever reactions thereafter, is besides the point. Just saying it's inevitable that most of us will see the disability first.
I suspect it's because obvious displays of disabilities mean being apart from the norm. Anything outside of the norm tends to get noticed first.
So, a person with disability should try even harder to demonstrate their abilities, as a way to counter (unconscious) prejudice. I would think this principle of showing one’s abilities (not “showing off” per se) applies to everyone, regardless of physical or mental abilities. Just that a person with disabilities has to try harder.
Equally inevitable is that some people with physical disabilities deliberately present their disabilities first. Perhaps to appeal to other people’s emotions and sense of pity. Maybe these people think doing so is the only option for them. I’m not saying if this is right or wrong. Just saying this seems to be another observable fact.
Yet, for those 'within the norm', we need to be reminded that we all have some disability to some extent. It’s only a matter of degree.
Some time ago, a colleague pointed out to me that if you wear glasses or contact lenses, you have a sight-disability.
Except there's so many people who need their vision corrected, so we're within the norm. But it's still, by definition, a physical disability nonetheless.
So in the end, it’s about how we consciously choose to demonstrate our abilities.
Some people have it easier, while others have to try harder.
But we all have to.
[First blogged at sgLEAD]